Have I lost my passion?

Have I lost my passion for triathlon?  Or have I simply lost confidence?  It was only a DNF.  Everybody has one.  Why is this one affecting me so much?  It’s because I’m left wondering if my body is done.  Has my body had enough of doing Ironman?  If I am not able to do Ironman, then what else do I do with my time? I always said that Ironman isn’t WHO I am and yet, within days of not finishing the World Championships in Hawaii on October 8, 2016, that’s exactly what was running through my mind.

When I recorded my Facebook video, immediately after getting back to the condo, after spending 2.5 hours in the medical tent (and not being given an IV!), I said (so easily) that not finishing this race doesn’t define me.  Intellectually, I know it doesn’t but somehow the feelings and thoughts that came up in the next couple of days made me realize that there is a part of me that has been defined by Ironman.  I felt this especially when I remembered how many times, when introducing me to people, my friends would say, “This is Kathryn.  SHE does Ironman!!”

I was never comfortable with that.  I don’t know why exactly.  I think a lot is because I always figured that the person I was being introduced to didn’t care that I did Ironman triathlon.  For the friend that was making the introductions, they were in awe and wowed by my efforts at Ironman so wanted to make a point of it (and is it also because they want people to know that they know someone who does Ironman?).  I think a large part of why I am uncomfortable with it is because I have never looked at myself as doing anything extraordinary.  After all, look at all the thousands of people who have done one, several, one hundred and even 212 Ironman triathlons?  Look at the age range of people doing it?  18 year olds!  Women and men in their 70’s!  Never mind that, what about Sister Madonna Buder who holds the record for being the oldest woman to ever finish an Ironman (at age 82)!  (NOTE:  CHECK THIS: 83 yr old just finished in Hawaii this year)  Not only that, I also look at all my ultrarunner friends (and friends of friends), who have run literally thousands of kms in their careers and accomplished more than I can EVER imagine doing myself.

Which reminds me “never say never”… There was a time in my life when I remember standing at the finish line of an Olympic distance triathlon in Esperance, WA, Australia in 1995 or 1996.  I had just completed my own try-a-tri distance race and I was watching this woman in my triathlon club struggling through the 10 km run, the last portion of the race, having completed a 1.5 km swim and a 40 km bike ride.  I remember looking at her and thinking to myself “I could NEVER run 10 km!!”

Look at me now!  Twenty years later, I’ve completed 17 Ironman triathlons, several “Long Distance” triathlons (which is ¾ of an Ironman), numerous ½ Ironmans, countless Sprint and Olympic distance races (and that is only my triathlons; I’ve done numerous marathons, ½ marathons and 10 km running races).

I’ve had no burning desire to go for a run or a ride or a swim since my race 11 days ago.  Well, that’s not quite true.  When it’s beautiful and sunny outside, then the first thing I always want to do is to run or ride but given that the temperature has cooled off now that it’s autumn back in Canada, there’s not a huge desire to get rugged up for a run or a ride, after living for 2.5 weeks in the heat (85-80F) and humidity of Hawaii.  Besides, I always had other things on my plate and, unlike other times, I didn’t feel like rushing to squeeze in a run or ride, choosing, instead, to take life more slowly.

Eleven days after my race, I decided the way to start back to running was on the trail.  I could go at my own pace and I love being on my own on this particular trail.  It didn’t quite work out like that because my friend and his dog decided to join me.  Off we went.  Less than 2 km into the run, which was feeling good, even though my HR was rising on the hills, the dog squealed behind us but then trotted up to us.  I noticed she was keeping weight off her back paw.  So I took a closer look and noticed a huge patch of skin had been pulled off.  She must have caught herself on something.  That was the end of that run.  Luckily, it wasn’t bleeding and she didn’t appear to be in distress and was trotting along comfortably.  We walked out of the trail and headed home; my friend on his way straight to the vet.

I was left with deciding whether to go back to the woods, do a road run or not bother with either.  My friend was insistent that I should enjoy the beautiful day and encouraged me to get out for a run so away I went.

I chose a 10km loop on a quiet, gravel road that I knew would have minimal traffic.  As I ran, I paid close attention to my body and how it felt.  I hadn’t run a step during the Ironman 11 days ago because I missed the bike cutoff by only two minutes so my legs weren’t sore from that at all.  It was more that I had been dehydrated and I still feel that my body hasn’t resumed its normal routine yet e.g. sleep patterns.  I also paid close attention to how my spirit felt.  What went through my mind was the question “Have I lost my passion?”  I was enjoying my run for sure; it was sunny, warm, a slight breeze, the autumn colours of the trees were still beautiful but was I feeling the same joy that I normally do?  Was I able to take myself off to that place where visions and dreams come to me?  I tried to let go of my rambling thoughts and pay attention to the sensations in my body.  My heart rate (HR) rose and I could feel my heart thumping.  I stopped to walk until my HR lowered again.  The thought occurred to me that one of the questions the doctors always ask you when they suspect a DVT is “Do you have shortness of breath?” so, of course, I got worried for a moment about the implications of my increased HR.  Then I told myself I was being silly and that there’s no way I have a DVT or that it has travelled to my lungs as an embolism!  It’s simply that I’m still tired and recovering from my race.  I finished the 10 km loop with slight twinges in my legs and I put that down to the fact that I haven’t run in almost two weeks.  I felt happy that I had “broken the barrier” and completed my first run.  I let go of worrying about whether or not I had lost my passion.  I allowed my run to be exactly what is was… my first run since the first time I’ve not been able to finish an Ironman, a triathlon, or even a running race!

And I know there’s still more to be processed around that fact…

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2 thoughts on “Have I lost my passion?

  1. I too wonder if I’ve lost my passion for triathlon …. maybe it’s just a transition to another passion …. and realize it doesn’t matter what passion you have … just as long as you have a passion in life ! So important to think, to have a passion … a reason to get up in the morning … and get out the door! Whatever you do, I know you will do it with passion. .. and I’ll always be a supportive friend!

  2. Thank you Kathryn for this. Your post really resonated for me. It reminded me of those discussions I have had with you and Lisa around choice. I find it fascinating how those ‘firsts’ in our experiences can guide us to slow down and become more aware of the choices we are making. As I read your post, I found myself conjuring up a picture of accumulated experiential forces leading to shifts in our internal “tectonic plate” structure. In the calm of your reflective words, I felt energized by a certain excitement for emerging internal landscapes manifesting through the artistry of living life.

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